One of the most difficult things about telling people that I work from home, and that I am a freelance writer, is the fact that most of them don’t see it as a JOB. For some reason, working at home is seen as a 
sort of hobby by some people. Neighbors think that since I am at home working (while my son is at school) it means that I am free for a chat, or even to *shudder* watch their kids while they run a "quick errand."
Others think that they can just call me anytime because I’m "always home" or that I can always re-arrange my work from home schedule around whatever is happening. Not true! I have deadlines and responsibilities. When I first started, I tried to cram all sorts of things into my "work time." Not anymore. I’ve learned the power of saying, "I’m sorry, but this is my time to work." Unless it’s an emergency, the time my son is at preschool is work time.
What about you? Do you ever find that home working leads to people thinking that somehow you don’t have a JOB?
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I think that this is a common problem for work-at-home moms. (I'm not sure if it affects men who work at home, I don't seem to hear as many complaints coming from them.)
Posted by: Laura | September 10th, 2007 4:01 pm |
I have had this problem for years. I have worked out of the home for the last 10 years of my career. People stop by, call and want to hang on the phone and feel slighted when I can't drop everything to run to the mall or lunch. After 10 years, most have learned that I am busier than most office workers ever are. The difference is, I never get to leave the office and go home!
Posted by: Kathy | September 10th, 2007 7:15 pm |
You all make some very good points, especially about doing MORE work at home than at an office. Also, I wonder if our reluctance to bother men comes from our society's tendency to give them more space. Perhaps women seem more approachable?
Posted by: Miranda | September 11th, 2007 9:07 am |